Attention: Men who are desperate to stop the downward spiral of their marriages...

"You Are About to Discover Exactly What to Think, What to Doand What to Say
When She Says She's Not in 
Love With You Anymore" 

Hey brother-

You may be here for a number of reasons...

Maybe your wife has grown distant and told you that she "needs space."

Or seemingly out of the blue she declares, "This just isn't working..."

Perhaps you've heard the all too common, "I love you, but I'm not IN love with you."

Or she's already dropped the Divorce Bomb on you...

It's like a punch to the gut you never saw coming. You feel blindsided – like the rug has suddenly been pulled out from under you.

"The fact is, women initiate over two-thirds of all divorces and nearly 100% of the husbands are caught totally off-guard."

And these men don’t understand why it’s happening, what went wrong, who’s to blame or what to think, do and say next...

Do any of these questions sound familiar?? 

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    How can a woman just "fall out of love?"
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    What am I supposed to do next without looking desperate?
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    Why is she so cold and distant and taking this so well?
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    What can I say to convince her that I'm committed to fixing things?
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    How can I sleep when all I can think about is only seeing my kids part time?
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    Who the hell is she texting or talking to on Facebook?
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    How do I deal with the fear of losing everything?

If you've been asking yourself one or more of these things, then you are in the right place. 

And the good news is: you're not alone. 

But the BETTER news is that there IS A WAY to immediately stop the nervous and needy behaviors that are making things worse and to confidently begin to change your marriage and yourself for the better...


A LIVE, 5-Week, laser focused intensive designed to give you back your masculine confidence, clarity, peace, happiness and mojo

October 17th - November 14th - 2017

This course is going to be a unique experience.

  • The premiere version of this program is delivered LIVE online by Steve Horsmon and Tim Wade in video conference format for a maximum sized group of 10 men.

    We are personally inviting men to not only participate in this powerful program but we are asking those men to give us their feedback on what might be missing or what they would like more of. And so the whole thing will be very interactive and we will solicit your input.

Deep, dark and .... funny.

You read that right. That's our teaching and coaching style. 

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    We will take a deep dive into the psychological and behavioral challenges you're going through.
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    We won't shy away from the vulnerable part of the real pain you're going through and how to deal with the dark feelings.
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    And perhaps most importantly, we help you see the lighter side of the whole situation (there really is one, trust us.)

We've been in your shoes and we know why lots of (irreverent) humor, a loving brotherhood and unapologetic optimism about your options is KEY to your thriving in the future.

And we also know that in order to stop emotional the free fall you are in you must:

Connect with men who know this process and have not just survived, but THRIVED throughout.  

Learn the deep, dark and sometimes AMUSING facts behind this common situation.

Make CONFIDENT, clear, and bold decisions in the coming weeks and months.

My marriage is in a much more stable place now..."

“Out of the blue one day my wife and mother of our two young kids said to me 'I can’t take this anymore we’re done.' She said she wanted a divorce. I was devastated. I spent months reading Internet articles and just being passive hoping things would blow over while in the back of my mind blaming my wife for everything.  

I am thankful that I came across this course and would highly recommend his program to ANYONE that wants to improve their marriage and more importantly themselves. My marriage is now in a more stable place now. I’ve learned to be aware of how I contribute to my own happiness. There are less arguments and more common ground."





If you already know Steve Horsmon, then count yourself fortunate. If not, then this is your chance to work with a man who will blow your mind and your socks off at the same time.

Steve used to be a Good Guy who tried to please everyone in his life (except himself of course). Today he is a Great Man who teaches other Good Guys who struggle in their relationships with women to become the confident men that theirs partners crave. From his years of experience as a coach, he knows how women think and the many traps that men fall into.

When it comes to telling it like it is, Steve is a straight shooter with a heart of gold.  You’ll never meet a more honest, openhearted man and he generously shares his strength and knowledge with men from around the world.

His genius lies in his intuitive ability to know exactly how to handle relationship situations that baffle so many of us and then communicate those solutions in a no-nonsense way that makes everything crystal clear.

Bottom line: I'm honored to call Steve both friend and colleague as he is one-of-a-kind at being both.


Tim Wade is a Speaker, Writer, and Coach who helps “nice guys” reignite their natural mojo and step into healthy masculine power without becoming insensitive a**holes. As a recovering SNAG (Sensitive New Age Guy) himself, he knows all too well the pitfalls, traps, and mistakes that nice guys make when trying to navigate their love relationships.

Tim’s personal track record – Marriage, Divorce, Single, Marriage, Separation, Reconciliation, Divorce, Happily Single – is enough evidence to prove that the movies, songs, and even his mom lied to him about love and how to “be a man.”

Here's the straight talk:  Tim Wade is a man just like the you and me.  He's incredibly smart, inquisitive, insightful, wise and just as fucked up as the rest of us.  It's from that authentic, humble place where his generosity and brilliance shine.  

Tim is a close friend and confidant who I trust without question and I invite you to do the same. When it comes to a model of a man who never stops learning, trying, striving, loving, inquiring and improving...Tim's on my A-list of people I choose in my life. Throughout this course I think you'll find out why you'll want him on your list too.

Your Biggest Challenge Is Knowing Exactly What to Do Next

In How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb, you will learn the TOP THREE MISTAKES you must STOP NOW.

This will immediately reduce the pressure on her and give you breathing room to think and respond instead of just reacting.


This will immediately make you feel more confident and build trust for her that you know what you’re doing.

Here's How This Will Happen:

"What to Do When the Bomb Just Dropped"

You will learn how to respond to:

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    "I think I want a divorce"
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    The Icy Cold Shoulder
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    "I need space"
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    Shit Tests & Being Baited Into Arguments You Can't Win
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    "You're smothering me!"
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    No Naked Wife (she dresses in the closet)
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    "Stop being so needy!"
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    Emotional Numbness (she's checked out)
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    "I love you but I'm not IN love with you"
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    The Secret Phone & Facebook Conversations
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    Every Question is Answered "I don't know."

There's a spark again, we're a lot more connected..."

"The program revealed some of the things I was overlooking about my marriage – my wife’s needs – and pointed me toward a more manly response. I got the inside track on what she was looking for as a woman and what she would respond to.

By following some simple guidelines, doing reading assignments, and having some very good coaching I started changing my behavior… and my wife responded. She opened up more. She started getting the emotional safety and security she needs and I was beginning to be able to have sex with my wife again. 

We’re definitely on the path to healing and I no longer feel like I’m sharing a bed with an angry roommate. There’s a spark again, we’re a lot more connected, and I think we both see the possibility of a long future together. There were some big steps I needed to take toward her, and some ingrained reactions I am daily attempting to change. But I am seeing surprising results."


Los Angeles

"Quit Fighting About Stupid Shit 
and Start Having Adult Conversations"

You will learn how to:

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    Expertly diffuse anger, attacks and disagreements that don’t need to happen
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    Listen for the truth of what she is saying and let her feel your calm strength
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    Resist engaging in blame & negativity and do things that are actually ATTRACTIVE

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    Avoid Needless, Pressuring Questions And Make Confident Statements Instead
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    Make Her Feel Safer, More Attentive, And Curious About Your New Energy
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    Feel More In Control Of Your Emotions And More Bold In Speaking Honestly
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    STOP Taking Things Personally

I have been able to make a U-turn in my entire life..."

This program showed me that I was no longer the man my wife married and she was taking on more and more responsibilities because I wasn’t “manning up.” Not only did it help me realize that I needed to change for my relationship but also for myself. Through some great teaching and coaching, I have been able to make a U-turn in my entire life. I feel like I am becoming the man I want to be and my relationship is improving because of it. My only regret is that I lost some good years with my wife.”



"Stop Fearing Her Reaction 
and Start Asking for What You Want"

You will learn how to confidently deal with:

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    Sexual Rejection
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    The 3 Very Subtle Signs That She Is Warming Up To You And Thinking Of Staying Together
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    Her Skepticism, Doubt, & Mistrust
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    Her Constant threats to leave
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    Personal attacks & criticism

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    Her "Plan B" and other relationships she may have
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    Becoming outcome independent
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    Boldly stating what you want and expect
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    The possibility of divorce and how to face it with honor and grace

I am living life every moment to the fullest..."

"This program helped me change my life to what I want on my terms and according to my own values. It helped me transform from being a nice guy who had everything but was not happy – feeling empty and alone. Now, I am a man who has so much more! I am living life, every moment to the fullest, happy, satisfied, confident and ambitious."



"Mojo Mindset -
What to Expect and What Not to Expect Moving Forward"

You will create a new perspective on your life and future:

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    Become The Type Of Person You Would Like To Be Around All The Time (And Consequently Who She Would Like To Be Around)
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    Change the center of your universe and feel in control again
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    Permanently lose the anger and resentment and feel calm again

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    Start Taking Care Of Yourself, Your Health, And Your Inner Game
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    Feel more at peace with your future no matter WHAT happens next (this is your #1 key skill from this point on)
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    Create a confident new narrative about who you are, what you want, and where you're going
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You will be invited into a private Facebook group with us and the other men to continue the conversation and learning in between course modules.  This will be an important part of our brotherhood and a safe place to get support from other men.

Each student will be offered a private, 45-minute coaching session with Steve or Tim between Modules II and III.  (This session must be scheduled in this time period.)  This will be a special time for individual attention and laser focused coaching on your specific situation and challenges.

Whether you want to listen to the session again or you weren't able to make one of them live, we will be recording everything and those videos will be available to you at any time. 

The investment for over 6 hours of group training,

Q & A, and private coaching is only:


We wanted it to be a no-brainer for this special inaugural launch. We're not yankin' your chain when we say that you will not see that again.

Remember, in order to keep the group small and make sure everyone gets all the time they need, we are only allowing 10 extraordinary men to join this time. 

So don't miss out - join now.

By the way...

This course is strictly for men. We will be creating a safe space where anything that comes up in the group, stays in the group - no matter what.

That being said... 

This will NOT be a woman bashing free-for-all. We love women. We respect women. And we want to be the kind of men that women call "amazing."

Here's Everything in a Nutshell:

Four 90 Minute Group Sessions

Module I – "What to Do When the Bomb Just Dropped"

Tuesday, October 17, 2017 @ 9am PST / 12pm EST

Module II – "Quit Fighting About Stupid Shit and Start Having Adult Conversations"

Tuesday, October 24, 2017 @ 9am PST / 12pm EST

Module III – "Stop Fearing Her Reaction and Ask for What You Want"

Tuesday, November 7, 2017 @ 9am PST / 12pm EST

Module IV – "Mojo Mindset - What to Expect and What Not to Expect Moving Forward"

Tuesday, November 14, 2017 @ 9am PST / 12pm EST


Secret Facebook Group

1:1 Private Coaching Session

Video Recording of All Modules

All Modules Will Be Presented via Zoom Video Conferencing.

You must be able to download the Zoom application on your device and have a working camera and microphone.

Our 100% No B.S. Money Back Guarantee

We know from our own experience and the results of our clients that this stuff works. But we want you to be completely at ease in making the decision to invest in this program, so here's our guarantee:

If for any reason you are not satisfied with what you have learned and experienced in the course, please drop us an email ( letting us know within TEN DAYS of the last module. That's right, we'll let you take the entire thing and then decide if it helped you like we know it will.

If the answer is "no way", then we'll give you a full refund right on the spot. All we ask is that you tell us what you believe we could do to make the program better.

There's No Need to Suffer Alone and In Silence...

You're not the only guy who has stayed up late at night, sitting in the dark, secretly googling things like "How to Save Your Marriage" and "She Doesn't Love Me Anymore." 

The only way to break out of the paralyzing fear, sadness, and anger is to get help from those who has already walked this path (and lived to tell the tale!) and to talk with other men who have your back.

We are looking forward to seeing you in the course, hearing your story, and helping you become a confident, unapologetic man.

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